How to Fight Fair Even When They Don’t
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How to Fight Fair Even When They Don’t

We’ve all been there. You’re in the middle of a heated argument, and it feels like the other person has tossed all the rules of fair fighting out the window. Voices rise, tempers flare, and suddenly you’re caught in the swirl of anger, defensiveness, and frustration. It’s exhausting. And honestly? It can leave you questioning…

Say What You Mean, But Don’t Say It Mean: Communicate Clearly and Kindly in Relationships
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Say What You Mean, But Don’t Say It Mean: Communicate Clearly and Kindly in Relationships

You’ve probably heard the saying, “Say what you mean, but don’t say it mean.” It’s one of those nuggets of wisdom that sounds simple, but if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably tripped over it more than once. It’s not just about speaking the truth—it’s about speaking the truth in love (as the Bible encourages…

Frustrated by Someone’s Behavior? How to Spot and Stop the Same Pattern in Yourself

Frustrated by Someone’s Behavior? How to Spot and Stop the Same Pattern in Yourself

We’ve all been there. You’re having a conversation with your spouse, your kid, or a colleague, and suddenly, you’re hit with that wave of frustration. You know the feeling—your patience is tested, and you’re about to lose it. Why? Because they’re doing that thing that drives you absolutely crazy. Maybe it’s the way they leave…