Hey, I’m Carrie

Relationship Decoder & Connection Builder!

I know what it’s like to feel stuck—having the same arguments, feeling misunderstood, and not knowing how to say what you really need. I grew up in a home where tension was normal, sarcasm covered pain, and speaking up didn’t always go well. My parents meant well, but like many, unhealed wounds shaped how we related.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That’s not what I meant,” or wondered why certain patterns keep repeating—you’re not alone.

As an ICF certified relationship coach and ministry leader, I blend faith-based wisdom with practical tools to help you grow in self-awareness, communicate with clarity, and handle conflict with more confidence. Whether you’re trying to connect better at home or lead well at work, I’ll walk with you toward healthier, more intentional relationships—starting with how you show up.

Because healing how we relate changes everything.

Some Of My Favorites

I’m all about double-speed audiobooks, hot coffee, and a good view—as long as it’s indoors because, well… bugs. I’m a total resource hoarder (if you need it, I probably have it saved in a folder somewhere). I love Jesus, deep conversations over coffee, personal growth, and making life easier with color-coded spreadsheets and streamlined systems. Solving problems, spotting patterns, and offering helpful shortcuts? That’s my happy place.

Audio Books

Potato Chips

Software

Deep Conversations

We’re the perfect match if you…

Are tired of conflict draining your energy

It seems like every difficult conversation turns into a full-blown argument, leaving you feeling emotionally exhausted and disconnected. You’re ready for calmer, more productive discussions.

Get frustrated by misunderstandings

No matter how much you try to explain yourself, you often feel misunderstood or unheard. You’re tired of feeling like your words don’t land the way you intend.

Struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty

Boundaries are a form of love, not selfishness! I’ll help you get comfy with saying “no” without saying “sorry” every five minutes.

Feel stuck in a cycle of trying everything without seeing real change

You’ve tried it all—read the books, watched the videos, but still feel stuck? Let’s stop spinning wheels and start taking real, practical steps that lead to tangible transformation.

If any of these sound all too familiar, you’re in the right place. It’s time to make real change.